On A Quest For That Doggie Rainbow Bridge In The Sky

A most traumatic thing happened to me today and I feel the need to write…

As I was taking Ruff, Hermie, and Honey for a morning walk, Ruff began to cry out, then drop down, and finally collapse upon just starting our walk. He was dead a few minutes later. I’ve never lost a healthy, eight year old dog like this. And, I hope it will be the last.

Ruff was a wonderful gregarious shepherd mix I found in 2003. He and Red(alive and well and sad)were playing in the parking lot of a motel I had stopped at around 9:30pm. I looked at them periodically through the night peeking out my window. Upon leaving the next morning, Ruff and Red were sleeping soundly in the motel’s flower bed. I started to leave but couldn’t. I then loaded the two lost and dirty but sweet and loving dogs in my car and they have lived with me ever since. All my pets are spayed, neutered, flea and heart worm free and well taken care of. I do not hoard animals…I simply have eight seven dogs who have not had a decent home until I took them in.

I love each dog I care for and all the others who have no home and all the others who do. I simply love animals and all other furry critters. As a child, I dreamed of being a veterinarian when I grew up…I guess you could say my dream came half way true because through the years I have been fortunate to be able to take care of many lost, broken, hurt, injured, and neglected animals. Ruff was one of the best… and today I’m especially on a quest for that Doggie Rainbow Bridge in the sky…

  

Knowing The Southern Art of Social Etiquette While Attending Holiday Functions (Even If You Were Raised In A Barn)

Tis’ the season to be jolly and certainly sociable…and a true Southern lady knows the fine art of social etiquette while attending all those fabulous holiday functions and parties. Why I have three soirees on my agenda for the upcoming week, and I’m really a bit of an introvert. However no fear, even if you were raised in a barn, one can always honor her true Southern heritage by following these five easy pieces of almost constructive advice…

1.  It is always proper to let the host know if you will be attending or not, even if there is no RSVP. After all, the host was kind enough to invite you, and if you are a real dork that keeps their host guessing, you certainly will not be invited again. Harsh, but so true…

2.  Don’t arrive early!!! I know you may be suffering from ‘ have no life syndrome’ however, the host appears to have a life or would not be throwing a party. Duh! And, the often frazzled host certainly does not need you banging on the door before the announced time, due to the attending of a  million and one last minute details.  Early birds get no worm here, only a good thinking about when the next party invitations go out. Remember, holidays are a lonely time of year…

3. Mingle, mingle, mingle! This involves not latching onto old familiar surroundings like they were the only people in the room but instead seeking new masses to engage in thoughtful conversation. Get over the fear and on with the idle chit chat! This is where that bachelor’s degree you struggled with for so many years comes in awfully handy. Who knows, you might meet a new friend who will be a keeper…

4. If the event happens to be a sit down dinner with no place cards in sight, pile make your plate and then go sit down ready to converse with whomever might be on each side. Hopefully, the chairs will not be turned up with a chair Nazi there to tell you they are taken… this is the equivalent of saving pews in the sanctuary each Sunday and we all know God is gonna get ya’ for that…

5. And after the gala event is over, thank the host not only once, but twice. First (and always), when you are leaving (only genuine ding-a-lings leave a party without saying goodbye no matter what) and secondly, it is especially nice to call or send a note after the event. This may sound a bit extreme, however our goal is to be invited back. Ahh, the lost art of  correspondence via snail mail. Just imagine the glow on your host’s face as he/she reads your special hand written, postal delivered thank you…that is, if the post office is still delivering mail at this time…second thought, better Fed Ex it just in case.

No excuses…you now know the Southern art of social etiquette while attending holiday functions. Go out, have a blast, enjoy your friends, and certainly no drinking and driving…Miss Alice can give you instructions on that…MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE!

Remembering Coy’s in Hot Springs and that Fabulous French Dressing!

Years ago we would frequent Coy’s restaurant in Hot Springs, Arkansas which served a decanter of spicy French house dressing on every table. It was sooo delicious that we would gobble it up with the basket of saltines long before the salad or meal came along. Oh, just admit it…you did the same thing too! So sad the place burned down in 2009 however, I’ve been making a similar version of this dressing for many years. Whenever I serve it, everyone has to have the recipe. Now that I’m dabbling in vegan-ism, this is my vegan version of that old favorite we all loved so long ago. Just use regular mayo for the standard recipe.

How to make an absolutely delicious French (vegan) salad dressing:
Ingredients:
1 cup Veganaise (get it at the health nut store)(use regular mayo for standard version)
1 cup tomato ketchup
3/4 cup vegetable oil
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1/2 teaspoon black pepper
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1 teaspoon onion powder
1 teaspoon paprika
1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
2 teaspoons sugar
1/4 lemon, juiced
1/4 cup minced onion with juice
Directions:
Whisk together all the ingredients in a medium bowl. Pour into a decanter and serve with your favorite salad greens or plain old crispy saltines. It’s really good with anything! I’m serving it for our Thanksgiving meal…

A Day at the Museum…

Yesterday I traveled up to Bentonville, Arkansas and checked out the brand new Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art.  Everybody I encountered was soooo nice and friendly and all the Crystal Bridges personnel were constantly wishing me a wonderful experience. What a treat it was!

What to wear…I wanted to look nice but be comfortable for the day long outing. And heaven forbid, everyone knows it’s against the law to be overdressed in Benton County (unless you’re a WalMartian). So, I went into the closet and came up with this ensemble for my day at the Museum…

This dark khaki Ralph Lauren Jacket was perfect! 98% cotton and 2% elastane made the fit flexible and comfy. Extra stylish with a hidden zipper up the front and brown Lauren buttons for show. Cruel Girl Jeans, of course. The older they get, the better they fit.

My Brown Dansko Dutchlike Clogs with textured swirls and designs, wide heel base, roomy toe area, and supported rocker bottoms were soooo comfortable all day long.

To round out my accessories, I chose as I so often do, my Green Turquoise Rope Necklace with matching earrings. What a great outfit for a grand day! And, if you haven’t made it to the new Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art…shame on you…you must go!

On A Quest For The Crystal Bridges Of American Art in Bentonville, Arkansas

OMG, HTB(Heavens to Betsy), and I do declayah, RUN don’t walk to the new museum, graciously given to us by The Walton’s from Bentonville, Arkansas! And, special thanks to Miss Alice who seems to be the lady in charge of this huge extravaganza!! For many, her monumental task might be considered the cart before the horse,(check this link to see what I mean) however, some of us are of the philosophy if you build it, they will come! And, a whopping $1.2 billion is said to have built this project! Believe me, they weren’t telling tall tales! Oh, and admission is free, just do as I did, and go to http://CrystalBridges.org to reserve your tickets today. Easy as pie!

This exclusive wonder is located just minutes from the town square where Sam Walton started it all and is nestled in a 120 acre ravine which spans the creek called Crystal Spring. Take I540N toward Bentonville, exit 86, left at the light, down to J Street and hang a right, and follow the signs. Once there you will discover a breathtaking array of 400 works by American artists which tell the story of America’s history as seen by its artists. Temporary exhibitions are on display as well. Be sure to keep your mouth closed (so a bug won’t fly in) and do plan on staying the entire day with elaborate amenities such as the Coffee Bar, the Museums’s restaurant, Eleven, which serves an innovative twist to lunch and dinner cuisine, the Museum Store(of course), and The Library which offers a large collection of art reference materials.  Click the link for hours and details! The grounds of the Museum are just as impressive as the art inside so be sure to dress comfortably and experience the natural environment too.

I took tons of pictures but, just as I did when I traveled to The Louvre in Paris… pictures do not do justice…you have to go for yourself… anyway, here are few of my favorites which kept my jar dropping…on my day at the Museum…

Of course, Norman Rockwell(1894-1926) Rosie the Riveter, 1943 Oil on canvas

Mary Cassatt(1844-1926) Summertime, 1894 Oil on canvas

Andy Warhol(1928-1987) Dolly Parton, 1985 Synthetic polymer and screen print on canvas

Evan Penny(b.1953) Old Self: Portrait of the Artist as He Will (Not) Be, Variation #2, 2010 Silicone, pigment, hair, fabric, aluminum

Karen Lamonte(b.1967) Dress Impression with Wrinkled Cowl, 2007 Cast glass

On A Quest For the Annual Silver Tea in Eureka Springs, Arkansas 2011

Every year in December, the wonderful women from Saint James Episcopal Church in Eureka Springs, Arkansas throw a memorable event for all those who attend called The Annual Silver Tea at the Crescent Hotel. This year the event will be held Thursday, December 1, 2011 from two till four in the afternoon.

I love attending this event because the people of this exciting Ozark/Victorian city go all out to welcome everyone who attends! They dress in full Victorian costume, make delicious homemade desserts and sandwiches, and serve tea the proper English way with the finest silver service the Crescent Hotel has to offer. The event is donation at the door and always goes toward a fine project in the Eureka Springs area. Last year’s beneficiary was the Carnagie Library and the year before was the Good Shepherd Humane Society of Eureka Springs.  The Christmas Parade in the downtown historic district will follow on Saturday. Check out some pics I took last year and do save the date! Will I see you there??

Having A Happy Vegan Thanksgiving For The Holidays…Maybe

Seems like Daughter and I are on a vegan-go-round for the holidays this year. We have both lost a lot of weight and inches with our new and improved lifestyle so, maybe this new kick will surely stick. No, we’re not living on carrots and celery sticks however, we are loving all the green, red, yellow, purple, and orange stuff that goes along with our new way of eating and thinking. Gone are the golden shades of crispy fried brown that we use to crave and in with a brand new colorful philosophy…eating a little bit greener and lot more kinder!

Now, what to do about that turkey thing. According to an article in Vegetarian Journal, Vol. 30, Issue Four 2011, Charles Stahler states that 48% of our 5-12 million adult Americans often do look for and choose vegetarian meals while probably around 5 percent are true vegetarians who never consume meat, fish, or poultry. And, approximately half of these are vegans who choose not to eat dairy or eggs as well.  In simpler words…we’re working hard to keep everyone, including the turkey, happy this Thanksgiving!

The turkey choice may still be up in the air, but here’s a couple of vegan friendly ‘traditional’ dishes we will be able to sneak by any carnivore. Bon AppeVegan!

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Di’s Cornbread Stuffing Serves 8
3 Tablespoons Earth Balance non dairy butter
2 garlic cloves, minced
1 large onion, diced
3 stalks celery, finely chopped
1 green bell pepper, finely chopped
1 skillet of vegan cornbread (check out http://www.Veganapalooza.blogspot.com)
10 slices stale whole wheat bread crumbs, crumbled
1/4 cup nutritional wheat flakes, get them at the health nut store
1 tablespoon ground sage or more
2 teaspoons salt
4 cups low-sodium vegetable broth
Directions:
1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees
2. In a large saucepan, melt the margarine over medium low heat. Add the garlic, onions, celery, and green pepper. Cover and cook, stirring frequently, for about 15 minutes are until veggies are slightly transparent.
3. Crumble the cornbread into a large mixing bowl. Add bread crumbs, veggies in their broth, nutritional yeast, sage and salt and mix until all ingredients are combined. Stir in the 4 cups of vegetable broth, one cup at a time until the stuffing is moist. Taste, and adjust seasonings.
4. Generously spray a baking pan with non stick spray. Add the cornbread stuffing and bake for 30-40 minutes or until golden brown. Don’t forget the cranberry sauce!

Daughter’s (Deconstructed) Green Bean Casserole Serves 8
For the fried onions:
2 medium onions, peeled and thinly sliced into half moons
2 cups soy milk
Oil for frying
All-purpose flour
Salt to taste
For the green beans:
1 lb fresh green beans, cleaned and left whole
Pot of boiling, salted water
For the Mushroom Celery Gravy:
1 Tablespoon olive oil
2 cups mushrooms, sliced
2 stalks celery, diced
1 pinch salt
4 Tablespoons Earth Balance butter
4 Tablespoons flour
1 1/2 cups soy milk, Tip: Don’t use the discarded soy milk you soaked the onions in!! Trust me…
1/4 teaspoon salt
1/2 teaspoon thyme
Black pepper
Extras:
Scallions for tying the green bean bundles
Freshly ground pepper for garnish
Directions:
1. Soak the thinly sliced half moon onions in the 2 cups of soy milk for at least 10 minutes
2. Heat 1-2 inches of oil in a skillet or preferably a wok on medium heat
3. Put some flour in a bowl, grab some onions (shake off excess soy milk) and toss in the flour with a couple of forks. Be generous with the flour so they won’t get soggy. Test the oil by placing an onion or two in and if it bubbles up…it’s ready! Fry for about 7-9 minutes or until golden brown, crispy, and beautifully caramelized. Drain on paper towel and sprinkle with salt while they are hot. Set aside.
4. For the green beans, blanch green beans in a pot of boiling, salted water for about 2 minutes. Take them out and shock them in a bowl of ice water, Drain and set aside.
5. For the gravy, sauté the mushrooms and celery in the olive oil for about 2 minutes or until tender. Season with the salt. Transfer to a bowl. In the same pan(don’t rinse out), melt Earth Balance over a low heat. Add the flour and whisk well to make a roux. Raise the heat and slowly add in the 1 1/2 cups soy milk. Whisk until it thickens and forms a smooth sauce. Add salt, thyme, and black pepper to taste. If needed, adjust thickness of sauce by adding more soy milk. Add in the celery and mushrooms.
6. For serving, cut the scallions in half and use them to carefully tie up little bundles of green beans  (reheat the green beans before tying if they are cold). Pour the gravy into a low serving dish, place the green bean bundles on top of gravy, and sprinkle the fried onion rings on top. Enjoy!





On A Quest For Some Really Good Cajun Cooking…

Don’t you just love the way our Little Rock River Market area has progressed in the last few years? This place has so much to offer the residents of the area as well as the visitors coming in. And, they are coming in most frequently these days thanks to the many sites to see, the great places to shop, and the wonderful new restaurants! It’s a great place to do some fine moseyin’ however, if you want to get down with some serious Cajun eating, do check out Redbones! Loved the Red Beans & Rice, mile high Cornbread, and the Pimento Cheese just like my mom use to make!!! And, after you’re full and satisfied and maybe lookin’ for some learnin’…don’t miss the fabulous Clinton Library.  

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Mermaids New Location…What Happened to Savor??

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Hey, don’t go to the Green Acres Road address…move on down the road to the new Mermaids location! Same great food, friendly staff, and delightful drinks but wait till you see the new digs! Mermaids, now located in the old Savor building is going really strong to accommodate Fayetteville’s hungry patrons and night life. We got there early and by the end of the evening all tables were full and happy. Our group had a little bit of everything and all was really good. Me and #3 stayed legal on our new vegan lifestyle with suggestions from our super waiter! The crowd at the bar looked like they were really enjoying themselves as everyone soaked up the warm, cozy, and huge new surroundings. Try Mermaids first…we’ve never been disappointed.

You Must Persevere And Push Through The Hard Stuff…

so don’t bail out before you get to the good part! I use to skip out on the hard stuff all the time until one day I realized it was all hard stuff, so I just hung in there, through thick and thin and finally got to reap some great benefits. That’s how I finally got my Bachelor’s degree at the ripe ole age of 55!

You both have been pretty successful in your careers these days and I think y’all know about perseverance…however, it never hurts to be reminded.

Love you guys,
MOM